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Things I’m doing at 41 to avoid regret at 81 (Part 1)

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Updated: Jul 23, 2023

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Reflecting on the passage of time, a newfound sense of contemplation fills my thoughts. As I enter my 40s, I can't help but wonder how my choices today will shape the person I become in the future. It's an introspective journey, one that has led me to ponder the concept of regret and how to navigate life in a way that minimizes it. While it's impossible to predict the future, I've come to realize that I have the power to influence it through the decisions I make today.




Regret, that lingering emotion that haunts us when we feel we've missed opportunities or failed to seize the moments that mattered most, is something I aim to avoid at all costs. When I'm 80, I refuse to look back on my life with a sense of disappointment or longing for what could have been.


Instead, I am embracing a proactive approach, taking intentional steps now to create a future filled with purpose, fulfillment, and a deep sense of satisfaction.


At 41, I am determined to make choices that align with my values and aspirations. It's about embracing the present moment while keeping my eyes fixed on the long-term vision.


It's about being mindful of how I spend my time, invest my energy, and nurture my relationships. It's about prioritizing experiences over material possessions, nurturing personal growth, and cultivating meaningful connections.


In this series of letters, I will share the principles and actions I've embraced on this journey to avoid regret at 81. These are not quick fixes or overnight transformations, but rather a conscious commitment to live a life that leaves no room for remorse. Together, let's explore the essential steps we can take to navigate the intricacies of life with wisdom, intention, and a relentless pursuit of fulfillment.


1. Strength Training - Lifting Weights For a Quality Life.

The gym is the difference between independence & the nursing home.


Strength training is both my retirement & insurance plan in one.


I have come to appreciate the importance of physical well-being and the role it plays in maintaining a high quality of life. One particular aspect that has captured my attention is the power of strength training. The gym has become more than just a place to break a sweat; it has become a sanctuary where I invest in my future.


Strength training goes far beyond aesthetics or building muscles for vanity's sake. It is a proactive approach to aging gracefully, maintaining functional independence, and safeguarding my long-term well-being. The benefits of regular strength training are extensive and go well beyond the physical realm.


By engaging in resistance exercises, I am actively combating the natural decline in muscle mass and strength that occurs as we age. This decline, known as sarcopenia, can lead to a loss of mobility, increased frailty, and a greater risk of falls and injuries. By building and preserving muscle mass through strength training, I am fortifying my body's foundation and enhancing its ability to perform daily activities with ease.


Moreover, strength training contributes to the preservation of bone density, reducing the risk of osteoporosis and fractures. As I age, maintaining strong and healthy bones becomes increasingly crucial for overall physical resilience.


However, the benefits extend beyond physical health. Regular strength training positively impacts mental well-being by reducing stress, anxiety, and symptoms of depression. It boosts self-confidence, improves cognitive function, and enhances overall mood. The discipline and commitment required for consistent strength training can also translate into increased discipline and resilience in other areas of life.


When I think about the future, I envision an active and independent lifestyle, free from the limitations and dependence that often accompany aging. Strength training is my insurance policy against physical decline, granting me the ability to maintain my independence well into my golden years.


I view the gym not only as a place to sculpt my body but also as a sanctuary where I invest in my long-term health and well-being. It is a space where I am proactively shaping my retirement plan—one that doesn't rely solely on financial security but also prioritizes physical and mental resilience.

By prioritizing strength training now, I am investing in a future where I can enjoy an active lifestyle, engage in my favorite activities, and cherish moments with loved ones without being hindered by physical limitations. The gym, for me, is not just a means to an end but an integral part of my journey towards a fulfilling and independent life.


So, as I step into the gym at 41, I do so with a clear understanding that lifting weights is not just about the immediate gains; it is an investment in my future, an insurance plan against the uncertainties of aging. It is a commitment to a quality life that allows me to embrace the possibilities of independence, vitality, and well-being well into my 81st year and beyond.



Stay tuned for Part 2 of this 20-part series.


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